Okay, let’s dive into the matrix together. I think it’s pretty clear by my past Substack newsletters that I’m in a stage of life where I’m changing how I spend my time online. I’ve been watching a lot of docs and reading a lot of articles about the toxic rabbit hole our society has gone down since the quick rise of tech and social media. It’s all morphed a lot in the last decade or so, and PHEW it’s a doozy of a situation. Yes, there is so much good, but there is also a lot of bad.
Thanks for sharing those articles. I'm going to read them the moment this is posted.
But before I do, I thought you might find these interesting. It's easy to pin a lot of the problems on social media because it's the most recent iteration, but it's not even close to the start. Check out:
She was a journalist who noticed a trend in what she was being asked to write. Her book is much bigger and more profound than that, but what she has to say about the media (advertising and otherwise) is POWERFUL!
P.S. Please keep writing these. As always, I find your thought deep and fascinating.
You've said you're limiting your use of social media. However, I wrote this tweet thread inspired by one of the articles you shared yesterday and I thought you might find it interesting as it pertains to filmmaking:
Also, yeah. I think the degradation of trust is definitely a problem. But, I think that author's solution about commodifying trust is dangerous. I feel the solution is complete openness, no more secrets, but I don't think that's something the world is quite ready for.
I support you, but it also scares me how fast technology is evolving. You're absolutely right, it's hard to make sense of it all - what's bad and what's good. It's starting to give me a headache.
Having a kid woke me up to the reality of how much technology and the Internet—and all the incentives both offer us to behave in ways we otherwise wouldn't—has been running my life.
One day about 3 months ago, I picked up my iPhone to 'just do one thing real quick,' and looked up who knows how much longer later... to see my baby boy staring at me. I have no idea how much time had passed, and imagined what impressions he must be getting, seeing all this big people staring at these things in their hands all the time, ignoring each other.
Right then and there, I removed all social media, email, news, and internet browser apps from my phone. My screen time has since dropped from ~3 hours a day to about ~45 minutes, and I regularly (blissfully) lose track of where my phone is several times a day now. Honestly? It's great.
I do still feel a sort of fuzzy nagging FOMO, a sense that I'm somehow not doing my due digital diligence as a human in 2023, but it's fading. Maybe these are extreme measures, but this feels like the right balance for me right now. I'm really and truly there for every moment with my son, in real time. I wish I could say I'm sleeping better and more focused reading 10 books a week and making a million dollars a month, but the changes have been more subtle than that.
Still trying to figure out what the hard philosophy I can commit to going forward, but this feels like a healthy start. Most days, I feel... older and happier, I guess, in a quiet way.
Thank you for sharing all of this Trevor. I wish all of us on this planet were taking that kind of care and self reflection. It’s something I’m peeling back the layers on every single day and finding more to shed. ❤️❤️❤️ sending you and your family so much love.
Thanks for sharing those articles. I'm going to read them the moment this is posted.
But before I do, I thought you might find these interesting. It's easy to pin a lot of the problems on social media because it's the most recent iteration, but it's not even close to the start. Check out:
Noam Chomsky's "Manufacturing Consent:
https://www.amazon.com/Manufacturing-Consent-Political-Economy-Media-ebook/dp/B0055PJ4R0/
Edward Bernays's "Propoganda"
https://www.amazon.com/Propaganda-Edward-Bernays-ebook/dp/B0097D76MG/
More on Bernays and his influence: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_Bernays
He basically invented advertising as we know it and he used a lot of psychology to manipulate people into making the choices he was paid to promote.
Betty Friedan's "The Feminine Mystique"
https://www.amazon.com/Feminine-Mystique-50th-Anniversary-ebook/dp/B007R9CH3U/
She was a journalist who noticed a trend in what she was being asked to write. Her book is much bigger and more profound than that, but what she has to say about the media (advertising and otherwise) is POWERFUL!
P.S. Please keep writing these. As always, I find your thought deep and fascinating.
Yes wonderful shares thank you for sending those over ;))) I just read this Substack piece as well and it’s fantastic...
https://www.thefp.com/p/were-in-danger-of-losing-our-most
You've said you're limiting your use of social media. However, I wrote this tweet thread inspired by one of the articles you shared yesterday and I thought you might find it interesting as it pertains to filmmaking:
https://twitter.com/BrandXJon/status/1648353924645281792
Let me know what you think.
Also, yeah. I think the degradation of trust is definitely a problem. But, I think that author's solution about commodifying trust is dangerous. I feel the solution is complete openness, no more secrets, but I don't think that's something the world is quite ready for.
Yah it’s all such a clusterfuck. Truly. And totally agree with your Twitter thread. It all depends on who is curating the “menu” in all aspects.
I support you, but it also scares me how fast technology is evolving. You're absolutely right, it's hard to make sense of it all - what's bad and what's good. It's starting to give me a headache.
Thank you for reading and for your thoughts. It’s definitely a wild time 😬
Having a kid woke me up to the reality of how much technology and the Internet—and all the incentives both offer us to behave in ways we otherwise wouldn't—has been running my life.
One day about 3 months ago, I picked up my iPhone to 'just do one thing real quick,' and looked up who knows how much longer later... to see my baby boy staring at me. I have no idea how much time had passed, and imagined what impressions he must be getting, seeing all this big people staring at these things in their hands all the time, ignoring each other.
Right then and there, I removed all social media, email, news, and internet browser apps from my phone. My screen time has since dropped from ~3 hours a day to about ~45 minutes, and I regularly (blissfully) lose track of where my phone is several times a day now. Honestly? It's great.
I do still feel a sort of fuzzy nagging FOMO, a sense that I'm somehow not doing my due digital diligence as a human in 2023, but it's fading. Maybe these are extreme measures, but this feels like the right balance for me right now. I'm really and truly there for every moment with my son, in real time. I wish I could say I'm sleeping better and more focused reading 10 books a week and making a million dollars a month, but the changes have been more subtle than that.
Still trying to figure out what the hard philosophy I can commit to going forward, but this feels like a healthy start. Most days, I feel... older and happier, I guess, in a quiet way.
In a 'good enough' way.
Thank you for sharing all of this Trevor. I wish all of us on this planet were taking that kind of care and self reflection. It’s something I’m peeling back the layers on every single day and finding more to shed. ❤️❤️❤️ sending you and your family so much love.
Wonderful, compelling, thought-provoking writing. As usual, my friend. Love you bunches xoxo
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Thank you!!! And I, you! Xoxox ❤️